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		<title>By: Gab</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10902</link>
		<dc:creator>Gab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 02:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Belinkie:  I had to re-read your first paragraph a few times because, sadly, I thought you meant Michael Jackson.

Now THAT would be an epic movie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Belinkie:  I had to re-read your first paragraph a few times because, sadly, I thought you meant Michael Jackson.</p>
<p>Now THAT would be an epic movie.</p>
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		<title>By: mlawski</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10895</link>
		<dc:creator>mlawski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 18:33:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Mlawski: You meant to say &quot;the Nolans&#039; choice to kill OFF Rachel.&quot;  You also meant to say &quot;it GENERALLY happens to women.&quot;  Dumbass.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mlawski: You meant to say &#8220;the Nolans&#8217; choice to kill OFF Rachel.&#8221;  You also meant to say &#8220;it GENERALLY happens to women.&#8221;  Dumbass.</p>
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		<title>By: mlawski</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10894</link>
		<dc:creator>mlawski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 18:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Belinkie: We had a similar discussion on one of the recent Lost threads.  It&#039;s a cheap trick to introduce a likable love interest, only to kill that person off for some quick drama.  But it works.  It&#039;s certainly worked on me.

The problem occurs when you aggregate all the instances of fridge-stuffing in a certain medium.  The Nolans&#039; choice to kill of Rachel Dawes isn&#039;t necessarily misogynistic on its own.  It&#039;s only when you realize that this kind of thing happens in basically every superhero movie or comic ever, and it general happens to women, that it gets creepy.

A commenter suggested the same thing was happening to the minority characters on Lost.  At first I didn&#039;t believe it, but now from my place in the middle of the third season, I&#039;m starting to think it might be true.  The cast is certainly getting whiter as the episodes progress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Belinkie: We had a similar discussion on one of the recent Lost threads.  It&#8217;s a cheap trick to introduce a likable love interest, only to kill that person off for some quick drama.  But it works.  It&#8217;s certainly worked on me.</p>
<p>The problem occurs when you aggregate all the instances of fridge-stuffing in a certain medium.  The Nolans&#8217; choice to kill of Rachel Dawes isn&#8217;t necessarily misogynistic on its own.  It&#8217;s only when you realize that this kind of thing happens in basically every superhero movie or comic ever, and it general happens to women, that it gets creepy.</p>
<p>A commenter suggested the same thing was happening to the minority characters on Lost.  At first I didn&#8217;t believe it, but now from my place in the middle of the third season, I&#8217;m starting to think it might be true.  The cast is certainly getting whiter as the episodes progress.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew Belinkie</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10893</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew Belinkie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 17:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Gab - How many times do we need to see MJ hanging from something and screaming, while Spider-Man yells &quot;Hang on, Mary Jane!&quot;

I can understand you disliking how Rachel died. She&#039;s the one female character, and she gets taken out just to give the men something to get all riled up about. BUT... it works. I mean, The Dark Knight is a great movie. So yes, her death is kind of a cliche, but that doesn&#039;t mean that it can&#039;t be effective, good storytelling. Right? Go ahead and let me have it if you must.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Gab &#8211; How many times do we need to see MJ hanging from something and screaming, while Spider-Man yells &#8220;Hang on, Mary Jane!&#8221;</p>
<p>I can understand you disliking how Rachel died. She&#8217;s the one female character, and she gets taken out just to give the men something to get all riled up about. BUT&#8230; it works. I mean, The Dark Knight is a great movie. So yes, her death is kind of a cliche, but that doesn&#8217;t mean that it can&#8217;t be effective, good storytelling. Right? Go ahead and let me have it if you must.</p>
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		<title>By: Gab</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10872</link>
		<dc:creator>Gab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 06:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Belinkie:   My knee-jerk reaction in defense of the &quot;girlfriend-gets-kidnapped&quot; climax is that each time, it&#039;s by a different bad guy, ergo a new person to discover the hero&#039;s love for her.  But I&#039;m  more on your side.


And yes, _Children of Men_ is an awesome movie.  Those long, one-shot sequences make me react physically in a way they wouldn&#039;t have, had they been done with multiple cameras and cuts, for one thing.  

@Mlawski:  ::salute::

Oh, and I think Rachel deserves a good long rant about how awesome she was and how sucky that fridge-stuffing of her made me feel.  Maybe I&#039;ll play with that on my own blog in my oooooooodles of spare time.  I did like how she even kept turning down her D.A. boss in _Batman Begins_, too, which gets rid of any theories about boss-humping to have her position as assistant D.A.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Belinkie:   My knee-jerk reaction in defense of the &#8220;girlfriend-gets-kidnapped&#8221; climax is that each time, it&#8217;s by a different bad guy, ergo a new person to discover the hero&#8217;s love for her.  But I&#8217;m  more on your side.</p>
<p>And yes, _Children of Men_ is an awesome movie.  Those long, one-shot sequences make me react physically in a way they wouldn&#8217;t have, had they been done with multiple cameras and cuts, for one thing.  </p>
<p>@Mlawski:  ::salute::</p>
<p>Oh, and I think Rachel deserves a good long rant about how awesome she was and how sucky that fridge-stuffing of her made me feel.  Maybe I&#8217;ll play with that on my own blog in my oooooooodles of spare time.  I did like how she even kept turning down her D.A. boss in _Batman Begins_, too, which gets rid of any theories about boss-humping to have her position as assistant D.A.</p>
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		<title>By: mlawski</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10871</link>
		<dc:creator>mlawski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 05:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Belinkie.  Watch Children of Men.  While it&#039;s not the best movie ever, it is truly one of a kind.  I wouldn&#039;t say it should have won Best Picture, but it at least should have been nominated.  The cinematography and special effects are absurd--I mean that in the absolute best way possible.

And thanks, Gab, for picking up the feminist mantle.  Sometimes I just feel like ringing the bell and moving on.  For the record, though, I like Mary Jane, Rachel Dawes, and Pepper Potts.  Hell, I&#039;ll even throw Lois Lane in there.  They may be damsels in distress, they may be stuffed in fridges, but at least they have moxie.  And that&#039;s something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Belinkie.  Watch Children of Men.  While it&#8217;s not the best movie ever, it is truly one of a kind.  I wouldn&#8217;t say it should have won Best Picture, but it at least should have been nominated.  The cinematography and special effects are absurd&#8211;I mean that in the absolute best way possible.</p>
<p>And thanks, Gab, for picking up the feminist mantle.  Sometimes I just feel like ringing the bell and moving on.  For the record, though, I like Mary Jane, Rachel Dawes, and Pepper Potts.  Hell, I&#8217;ll even throw Lois Lane in there.  They may be damsels in distress, they may be stuffed in fridges, but at least they have moxie.  And that&#8217;s something.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew Belinkie</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10870</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew Belinkie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 03:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Gab - You know what gets MY goat? How Mary Jane is kidnapped by the villain in ALL THREE MOVIES. To paraphrase Ian Fleming, &quot;Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is lazy screenwriting.&quot; Yes, I know &quot;bad guy has girlfriend in dangerous location&quot; is a very easy setup for a finale (hell, that was Iron Man, right?). But there are other ways. I&#039;m sure of it.

It&#039;s a related issue to the &quot;slut&quot; question. No, I don&#039;t believe she&#039;s a slut, although she literally runs away from her own wedding, which might make her an inconsiderate asshole. However, she IS defined entirely in relation to the men in her life. On the other hand, the movie is called &quot;Spider-Man,&quot; not &quot;MJ Takes On NY.&quot; Her character&#039;s hopes and dreams are important only insofar as they impact Peter Parker.

Personally, I think Rachel Dawes, Batman&#039;s special lady friend, is a stronger character, by at least a little bit. Sure, she&#039;s ALSO largely defined by the men in her life, but she&#039;s also a D.A. She has a role in the story beyond looking cute. Not to mention, she has strong feelings about the sanity of the whole Batman thing. She&#039;s NOT going to pull down his mask for a quick makeout session.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Gab &#8211; You know what gets MY goat? How Mary Jane is kidnapped by the villain in ALL THREE MOVIES. To paraphrase Ian Fleming, &#8220;Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is lazy screenwriting.&#8221; Yes, I know &#8220;bad guy has girlfriend in dangerous location&#8221; is a very easy setup for a finale (hell, that was Iron Man, right?). But there are other ways. I&#8217;m sure of it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a related issue to the &#8220;slut&#8221; question. No, I don&#8217;t believe she&#8217;s a slut, although she literally runs away from her own wedding, which might make her an inconsiderate asshole. However, she IS defined entirely in relation to the men in her life. On the other hand, the movie is called &#8220;Spider-Man,&#8221; not &#8220;MJ Takes On NY.&#8221; Her character&#8217;s hopes and dreams are important only insofar as they impact Peter Parker.</p>
<p>Personally, I think Rachel Dawes, Batman&#8217;s special lady friend, is a stronger character, by at least a little bit. Sure, she&#8217;s ALSO largely defined by the men in her life, but she&#8217;s also a D.A. She has a role in the story beyond looking cute. Not to mention, she has strong feelings about the sanity of the whole Batman thing. She&#8217;s NOT going to pull down his mask for a quick makeout session.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew Belinkie</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10868</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew Belinkie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 03:18:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh noes, I forgot to post something on the blog last month! June 21, 2009, was the birthday of Baby Diego, the youngest person in the world (from Children of Men).

And if any of you haven&#039;t seen Children of Men, you just have to. I&#039;m generally not a person who insists that people watch certain movies. But Children of Men is just jaw-dropping. Everytime it&#039;s on TV, I can just kiss the next two hours goodbye.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh noes, I forgot to post something on the blog last month! June 21, 2009, was the birthday of Baby Diego, the youngest person in the world (from Children of Men).</p>
<p>And if any of you haven&#8217;t seen Children of Men, you just have to. I&#8217;m generally not a person who insists that people watch certain movies. But Children of Men is just jaw-dropping. Everytime it&#8217;s on TV, I can just kiss the next two hours goodbye.</p>
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		<title>By: Gab</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10844</link>
		<dc:creator>Gab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I spelled your name wrong at the end, Mlawski.  Mea culpa.

Bed time, before I piss more people off...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I spelled your name wrong at the end, Mlawski.  Mea culpa.</p>
<p>Bed time, before I piss more people off&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Gab</title>
		<link>http://www.overthinkingit.com/2009/07/17/open-thread-24/#comment-10843</link>
		<dc:creator>Gab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:50:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know what gets my goat?  How &quot;slut&quot; would, if the English language had gender, be considered a feminine noun, but there is no male equivalent (I don&#039;t count &quot;male-slut&quot; because it isn&#039;t its own word!!).  There are also &quot;skank&quot; and &quot;whore&quot; (or &quot;ho&quot;) (and &quot;man-whore&quot; doesn&#039;t count, either), and &quot;tramp&quot; has become associated with the female gender more than male in the past decade or so (a kids&#039; movie entitled _Lady and the Tramp_ would never fly nowadays because the word has taken on such a sexual connotation since then).  So you have all of these various ways of labeling a woman as having too much and/or illicit sex, but where are the words for the men?

Then I remembered Mlawski&#039;s article about &quot;douche&quot; and saw Fenzel&#039;s comment, and I think he answered for me.  &quot;...women who have sex with lots of men are sluts, but men who don’t have sex with lots of women are weak.&quot;   That&#039;s how American society treats sex.  There isn&#039;t a male equivalent because men are *supposed* to have sex all the time and with as many women as possible.  Duh, Gab.
 
Of course, there *is* still the fact that a woman that doesn&#039;t sleep with a guy on a first date is a &quot;prude&quot; or a &quot;cock-tease&quot; or something- and I can&#039;t come up with male versions of those, so either way, women are going to lose.

As for MJ specifically, I think she&#039;s an example of a fictional woman that can&#039;t exist outside her relationships with males.  Not that she&#039;s a &quot;slut,&quot; so much as she just has a constant, perpetual need to be &quot;protected&quot; and &quot;saved.&quot;  She goes from her father to Flash, who can protect her physically, to Harry and his financial security, and then Peter because he&#039;s, well, Spider-Man, for f***&#039;s sake (I&#039;m not even counting the times where he does, indeed, come to her rescue, either).  PETER-Peter was offering emotional stability, but I got the impression from the movies that she wasn&#039;t *really* serious about him until after finding out he has two identities.  

And I take issue with her either just being &quot;all-American&quot; or &quot;slut.&quot;  Perhaps on an individual level, we can see how a man operating like her (in terms of fidelity, i.e. flirting or switching) would be just as immoral as she is interpreted as, but, basically, because of the standards Fenzel pointed out in what I quoted, a man can be &quot;all-American&quot; while still getting around a lot (and he&#039;d be called a &quot;ladies&#039; man&quot; or something equally praise-giving) (and I&#039;d also argue that this is almost part of the criteria- maybe not so explicitly as other aspects, but definitely more common than not).  In order for a woman to be all-American, she must also be hopelessly devoted to ONE all-American man and wait for him to come home with dinner on the table, a scotch in one hand, his slippers in the other, and an apron around her waist, to boot- and God forbid *she* flirt with a man she runs into, or, gasp, date more than one man at the same time.

Just throwing that out there, since Mlwaski can only do so much on her own as the official &quot;token female.&quot;  Not to say I don&#039;t think you can hold your own, Shana...

Brevity, I laugh at thee.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know what gets my goat?  How &#8220;slut&#8221; would, if the English language had gender, be considered a feminine noun, but there is no male equivalent (I don&#8217;t count &#8220;male-slut&#8221; because it isn&#8217;t its own word!!).  There are also &#8220;skank&#8221; and &#8220;whore&#8221; (or &#8220;ho&#8221;) (and &#8220;man-whore&#8221; doesn&#8217;t count, either), and &#8220;tramp&#8221; has become associated with the female gender more than male in the past decade or so (a kids&#8217; movie entitled _Lady and the Tramp_ would never fly nowadays because the word has taken on such a sexual connotation since then).  So you have all of these various ways of labeling a woman as having too much and/or illicit sex, but where are the words for the men?</p>
<p>Then I remembered Mlawski&#8217;s article about &#8220;douche&#8221; and saw Fenzel&#8217;s comment, and I think he answered for me.  &#8220;&#8230;women who have sex with lots of men are sluts, but men who don’t have sex with lots of women are weak.&#8221;   That&#8217;s how American society treats sex.  There isn&#8217;t a male equivalent because men are *supposed* to have sex all the time and with as many women as possible.  Duh, Gab.</p>
<p>Of course, there *is* still the fact that a woman that doesn&#8217;t sleep with a guy on a first date is a &#8220;prude&#8221; or a &#8220;cock-tease&#8221; or something- and I can&#8217;t come up with male versions of those, so either way, women are going to lose.</p>
<p>As for MJ specifically, I think she&#8217;s an example of a fictional woman that can&#8217;t exist outside her relationships with males.  Not that she&#8217;s a &#8220;slut,&#8221; so much as she just has a constant, perpetual need to be &#8220;protected&#8221; and &#8220;saved.&#8221;  She goes from her father to Flash, who can protect her physically, to Harry and his financial security, and then Peter because he&#8217;s, well, Spider-Man, for f***&#8217;s sake (I&#8217;m not even counting the times where he does, indeed, come to her rescue, either).  PETER-Peter was offering emotional stability, but I got the impression from the movies that she wasn&#8217;t *really* serious about him until after finding out he has two identities.  </p>
<p>And I take issue with her either just being &#8220;all-American&#8221; or &#8220;slut.&#8221;  Perhaps on an individual level, we can see how a man operating like her (in terms of fidelity, i.e. flirting or switching) would be just as immoral as she is interpreted as, but, basically, because of the standards Fenzel pointed out in what I quoted, a man can be &#8220;all-American&#8221; while still getting around a lot (and he&#8217;d be called a &#8220;ladies&#8217; man&#8221; or something equally praise-giving) (and I&#8217;d also argue that this is almost part of the criteria- maybe not so explicitly as other aspects, but definitely more common than not).  In order for a woman to be all-American, she must also be hopelessly devoted to ONE all-American man and wait for him to come home with dinner on the table, a scotch in one hand, his slippers in the other, and an apron around her waist, to boot- and God forbid *she* flirt with a man she runs into, or, gasp, date more than one man at the same time.</p>
<p>Just throwing that out there, since Mlwaski can only do so much on her own as the official &#8220;token female.&#8221;  Not to say I don&#8217;t think you can hold your own, Shana&#8230;</p>
<p>Brevity, I laugh at thee.</p>
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